Ownership needs a narrow operational meaning here: a cited URL sits on a domain whose text you can change today without asking anybody. That splits every citation into three buckets. Owned is your site, your documentation, your changelog, your pricing page. Influenced is third-party pages that mention you and that you move only by giving somebody a reason to edit them: roundups, review directories, community threads, news coverage. Neither is the rest, which on most questions is the bulk of the answer.
Two things get miscounted. A page on a domain you rent rather than own, a marketplace listing or a profile on somebody else’s platform, behaves like an influenced page: the operator can change the template, the canonical or the robots rules without telling you. And a brand mention with no link is not a citation at all. It is a separate quantity, kept apart in six things called visibility, and your owned share of citations and of the prose are different numbers with different fixes.